What Sort Of Person Becomes A Hedonist?

Are hedonists perverts? The other day I was reading a popular English magazine. One of the featured articles was about hedonism. The articles implied that hedonists are perverts. I have been into hedonism for some time now, and I have yet to meet a person that I would call a pervert. As a matter of fact, I have met more perverts outside of hedonism and cheap escorts in London. You see, that is the other thing, many people assume that London escorts date perverts.  

What you must realise about hedonism, is that its followers come from all walks of life become hedonists. I know girls at London escorts who think that hedonism is something disgusting. Yet, there are plenty of London escorts who are happy to go to adult parties in London. Personally, I could not think of anything so perverted as adult parties. I think what I do as a hedonist is much more “decent” if you know what I mean.  

Hedonism has a long history and there have been many famous followers of hedonism throughout the ages. Most hedonists that I know have normal jobs during the weekend and only practice hedonism as a hobby. It is not only London escorts who join hedonistic groups in London, I know of lawyers, doctors, and nurses who are hedonists. Sometimes I meet some amazing people but the other girls I work with at London escorts still don’t believe me. It is kind of sad.  

What is hedonism all about? Hedonism is about many things. To me, it is a way of letting my hair down after I have been working for London escorts all week. Yes, I know that I could go out and party with the rest of the girls from our escort agency in London, but that would be boring. I do like meeting up with them once in a while but to hook up with them every weekend would simply be boring. I rather meet up with my hedonistic friends and have some fun.  

Are there any rules that apply when you practice hedonism? Yes, there are lots of rule. It is easy to think that hedonists just head out and have a really crazy time, but that is not true. Staying safe is just as important to hedonists as it is to many others. When I first joined London escorts, I never thought that hedonism was that sort of thing that I would get into. But, a girl who worked for a rival escort service invited me to a hedonistic party in London, Ever since then I have to admit that I have been really into hedonism. It is a great way of having some adult fun and enjoying physical pleasure without having to feel guilty about it. An increasing number of people are getting involved in hedonism and I can see it becoming very popular as the way we live continues to change and evolve.

Ways to Spice Up A Boring Relationship

Speak Their Love Language

This is a significant move, but it is seldom carried out. Dr. Gary Chapman’s book “Five Love Languages” should really involve reading for those interested in a romantic relationship. The book explains the different love languages that we all “speak.” 

Learning your partner’s love language is important to a relationship. While you can love someone with every fiber in your body unless you express that love in a way that they can understand, they will never truly feel loved (and desired).

Do New Things Together

This is one area in which biological research is very straightforward. Doing new things together as a couple can raise the cheapest amount of dopamine in the brain. Romantic bond is primarily related to dopamine. A chemical believed to influence emotions.

Be Consistent

“Don’t start somewhere you’re not willing to sustain” is another piece of brilliant pre-marital advice that I frequently hear. Committed relationships need something that I like to call “sticktoitiveness.” When you think back to the beginning of the relationship, there were dates, roses, appreciations, compliments, nice gestures, and messages. You’ve probably touched a lot more, too. Go back in there. 

I’m talking about all sorts of touching – hand-holding, kissing, caressing, and cuddling, as well as more personal contact and, of course, sex. Bring back those early days of relationship by making time for romantic gestures every day. And if you find that you don’t know what to do, don’t be afraid to ask your partner what they need and want.

Surprise Them

Don’t you love the look on a loved one’s face when you’ve delivered something surprising and kind to them? There is always more fun for you than for the person on the receiving end.

Don’t Forget Date Night.

You may have found that your schedules are so hectic these days that it’s not even time to have breakfast together. Just when you make time for crucial work meetings, do it at home. Now that my wife and I have a young boy, it’s hard to get a night out of town, but we haven’t let that ruin our date night. Instead, our usual date night is Red Stripe and Boggle’s mean game – our favorite game. Create your own date night.

Learn New Moves

Magnetic resonance imaging scans at Oxford University have shown that learning new motor skills — whether it’s hitting new piano keys or playing a new erotic harmonic in bed — is beginning a whirlwind of brain activity that drives pleasure.

Make (“Me”!) Time

Spending a lot of time together is the secret to sustaining a friendship, but there is too much of a good thing. Give yourself and your partner time to rejuvenate for the sake of the person and the partnership.

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